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So.. I'm kinda new at this, so please bear with me but.. after trying several different chastity devices mostly "balltraps" I decided to upgrade to a steel…

member_1a143a8e24 4 Sept 2026 #1

So.. I’m kinda new at this, so please bear with me but.. after trying several different chastity devices mostly “balltraps” I decided to upgrade to a steel belt so far things have been interesting to say the least getting the fit right has been the biggest hurdle, especially knowing between, “too tight”, not “tight enough” and “just right” my biggest concern is, do most full belts initially leave marks of some kind around the waist until “broken in”? any comments or thoughts are most welcome:) [Image: 000sm.png]

member_7530c5b827 7 Sept 2026 #2

My waist band is just like yours and, sadly, it can still rub the skin cause a sore even after six months. I have overcome this problem by making two little padded covers, roughly 3 inches wide, that can be slipped between meand the belt and then fasten closed around the belt with poppers. I find my most succeptible areas at the sides near my back where the waistband is fastened with the screws. I can only guess that the screws providejust a little less give in those sections and therefore cause it to rub. Let me know if you find another solution aseven the soft pads aren't 100% faultless.