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I've been considering purchasing a chastity cage since I struggle with frequent, uncontrolled masturbation. Typically, I masturbate at least once daily,…

member_2b79c71eab 4 Sept 2026 #1

I’ve been considering purchasing a chastity cage since I struggle with frequent, uncontrolled masturbation. Typically, I masturbate at least once daily, sometimes twice, which feels excessive. Often while relaxing by the computer after work, I find myself unable to resist watching porn videos or reading stories. I frequently promise myself that this time will be different—I’ll wait a few days before giving in—but it rarely holds up. When the urge strikes, I just can’t stop. I HAVE TRIED denying myself by telling myself to hold out until tomorrow, but soon enough, frustration builds and I give in.

I have several questions about using a chastity device:

  1. Since I don’t have a girlfriend nearby who holds the key, would it work for me to use an online chastity timer? (Take a photo of the combination lock, keep the physical key hidden away or in a metal box, upload pictures to confirm, and delete local copies). Do you think this approach works? Will I waste time guessing the password (e.g., trying combinations from 0000 to 9999)?
  2. Is Holytrainer any good? Thanks!!!!
member_c2333a7e3a 5 Sept 2026 #2

Your issues with frequent and uncontrolled masturbation are quite common. Using a **chastity cage** can certainly help you control the habit. However, you must ensure that the **key** remains out of your reach. You could leave the keys with a friend who lives far away. I suggest starting with standard cages found on sites like eBay. Once you get comfortable staying locked and decide to continue long-term, then invest in pricier models. Best wishes! Enjoy!

member_2b79c71eab 6 Sept 2026 #3

> Sunny said: > Your issues with frequent and uncontrolled masturbation are quite common > Using a **chastity cage** can certainly help you control the habit > However, you must ensure that the **key** remains out of your reach > You could leave the keys with a friend who lives far away > I suggest starting with standard cages found on sites like eBay. > Once you get comfortable staying locked and decide to continue long-term, then invest in pricier models. > Best wishes! > Enjoy! > Click to expand... The Holytrainer isn't actually that expensive. Is it?

member_152f1b30da 7 Sept 2026 #4

Hi Kenny, For shorter periods of **chastity**, you could mail the keys for your device back to yourself. For longer durations using this method, there is a risk of misspelling your address or underpaying postage. Just an idea; hope it helps. Chris

member_0d5abbcfd7 9 Sept 2026 #5

@kenny1999 yes you should. Continuing to have spontaneous ejaculations makes you quite lazy and ladies don't appreciate lazy men.