Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

One of the reasons given for being in chastity is you are no wasting time on pornography, etc. Cool! That would be a bonus, because I can really waste a lot of time doing that. Another reason is that it keeps you horny and focused on sex (with your partner, usually). That’s totally fun! I love the feeling of being constantly aroused and excited. Wheee! Well, I’m finding this to be a massive contradiction. Not orgasming or masturbating does nothing to reduce my interest in online stimulation. It increases it as I find I am always seeking reinforcement and encouragement from places like the community, from Tumblr blogs, etc. When I do have sex but am denied I am not satiated, I am even more horny and obsessed. One caveat: I have never been locked up. We haven’t reached that step yet. I have been on the honor system. I do not know if being in a device would change anything, although I imagine not being able to get an erection would have an effect. But mostly I imagine if I had a cage on my cock I’d just be obsessed and distracted by that. There is no device (or possibly even a person) that can create discipline in me to stay focused on other things and not fall into obsession with sexuality. Thoughts? Thanks…

porn loses its luster when your caged, at least for me. Though I do still look at chastity stuff on tumblr. Its difficult at times with a raging erection being stifled by the cage. I can only take small increments of it. While looking at the pictures are fun you realize they arent doing much for you and for me it kind of pushes me to get motivated and take my mind off of it.

Kali's Teeth or the Iron Maiden would put a damper on the porn watching as getting hard in one is very, very painfull.

If anything I think I look at it more when caged. The cage may be a reminder, and the arousal without relief may stimulate endorphins to fill the bloodstream. I look and look and look, then I just stop.

I tend to look at more chastity related kink when in my cage. When out I find that I look less because soon as I get excited I would/will masturbate and get a orgasm. Once I orgasm the interest drops of course. There is a bit of enjoyment and torment being in the device and not being able to get a orgasm only making me more aware of my situation, which I enjoy the most.

Locked or honor system, I don't masturbate anymore. I feel more attachment and devotion since I gave up masturbation (over 300 days since!). I haven't cut out porn though. It's still a draw, but not nearly as much. I used to get deeper and deeper into an obsession with porn when I masturbated. Now that's stopped. I find being locked can sometimes make me more focused on porn. I don't think a device would magically create discipline. You'll find milking and vibrators and such-like. I think the discipline is mental self control. It's possible. While I enjoy enforced chastity fantasies, and being able to "let go", I find there's a really cool power to maintain self control. That said, being locked in inescapable chastity is a awesome head-trip. What it most helps with is waking up at 3am, with only your hind brain to talk you into cheating. Wandering fingers finding warm steel instead of flesh, with no hope of pull out... It's almost comforting to be locked.