Introductions discussion

Hello all! I usually land on this website whenever I search for answers about chastity online, so I decided it was time to sign up and ask my questions directly. Chastity has interested me for a long while, though I don’t have much practical experience. My goal is to buy an affordable yet decent quality device as I begin exploring chastity play more seriously. What’s the best spot on this forum to discuss or learn about what to keep in mind when buying one? For my next question: it seems many men here are either straight or sissies. As a gay man who isn’t into sissification, is there a significant number of gay members on site, or is the crowd mostly heterosexual? Thanks!

Welcome to the community:) The Mall (Devices) section is ideal for information on the different types of devices available. There's plenty of helpful advice and details to assist you in finding a good fit.

Hi @ilikebooks, welcome to the site; I'm new here as well

Hey @ilikebooks, welcome! I've also joined recently and am thrilled to have found this place. While I'm straight rather than a "sissy," the genre is certainly popular within the chastity community. Based on what I've researched, my view is that chastity is whatever you make of it; it's incredibly versatile. Whether you're straight, gay, sissy, into BDSM, or something else entirely, I’ve read through many forums from diverse backgrounds about chastity and picked up some useful tips even if the content isn't always to my taste. Best of luck with your search, happy reading, and most importantly enjoy your journey into chastity.

Welcome to CM You've come to the right spot … Plenty of people here ready to assist regardless of your kinks or sexual orientation! For a first 'budget-friendly' device, e-Bay is likely your best bet. Make sure to choose one that includes multiple ring sizes … unless you already know exactly which size fits you. However, once or if you realize this is what you want… there's really only ONE place for a high-quality device: The wonderful team at Mature Metal!!! Best wishes on your quest! PET

I've noticed posts here from gay men who are locked by their boyfriends, so they definitely exist (as well as bi men). While there might be more straight men overall, don't let that put you off. I haven't seen any policy or bias against being gay during my time here.