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I was curious whether you let your submissive or chastity boy use the site? I prefer that he doesn't see my posts. He is permitted to write a blog, but I…

member_3635cd7dcf 4 Sept 2026 #1

I was curious whether you let your submissive or chastity boy use the site? I prefer that he doesn’t see my posts. He is permitted to write a blog, but I review it before publication. Actually, he sends his drafts only to me and I publish them on his behalf. He isn’t allowed to view who reads or replies to his content. I enjoy keeping him unaware of the audience while appreciating that he writes about his experiences.

member_1deb4ed88c 4 Sept 2026 #2

Since we connected here and @lockit was present long before me, I believe it fits for him to stay as an individual. Our dynamic doesn't restrict his ability to express himself freely. He belongs to many platforms, including mine, fetish sites, this one, and others; I don't control what he publishes there. It is crucial that he has the liberty to voice his true self, otherwise he wouldn't be authentic in our relationship or as a person. Regarding him seeing my content, I assume @lockit reads everything I post so he can gauge my thoughts and feelings at any moment. With three blogs covering different topics—one focused on fetish—five web pages (one political), two fetish accounts, and five Twitter profiles, it keeps him quite occupied. Still, I find that this allows him to see me as a person beyond just being his Owner. I believe that by reading my posts, he gains a better understanding of our relationship. Similarly, when I read his writings, it helps me understand him more deeply.

member_2ebad92782 7 Sept 2026 #3

I do permit my sissy to be here; she is well aware that her comments need to remain polite and courteous.