Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

For me and GC, the main hurdle to long-term denial was that she absolutely loves PIV sex and having orgasms together. We had considered using a strap-on before, but it wasn’t her favorite idea so we never went through with it. Last Friday, I finally headed to Good Vibes to purchase the cock extender ( that we had spotted there months earlier. Back then, we passed on it because I was concerned it would be too large for GC, even though she felt it might actually be a bit small for me. However, I figured the only way to know for sure was to try it out. When GC returned from work, I showed her the device and she was thrilled at the prospect of trying it. Yesterday, we finally gave it a go. It was fantastic. Our sex felt just like those early days when we first started dating, with zero anxiety about whether or not I would reach my orgasm. She climaxed harder than she has in ages, repeatedly. After nearly an hour, we wrapped up because I was approaching the point of no return, and she decided she had received her fill. Later on discussing it, GC mentioned that being penetrated by me felt just as good with this setup. It was a genuine breakthrough for her, making her realize that this could be the missing link in our long-term denial strategy. I am thrilled; I still feel ecstatic. She understands how much I rely on and crave the state of denial, knowing that merely waiting a few weeks doesn’t quite get me into that headspace we both want. We have also discussed my dream of “permanent” denial, but it seemed out of reach since she needs having me inside her just as deeply as I need to hold back. I can hardly wait to see how the coming months unfold!