Introductions discussion

Hey everyone! I’m Ben. I’ve been a member here for a few years, but that was back when I first started my chastity journey and made some rushed errors. Anyway, I just ordered my inaugural steel cage because I’m heading off to college in Tennessee. I’ve been chatting with a couple of locals who really know their stuff—my Domina is actually the person in my profile picture right now! Soon, I’ll begin documenting my journey: how this new device stacks up against those cheap plastic knockoffs, and what plans we have for us. We’re meeting up in about a month, so I’m thrilled! Also, I promise to try not to touch myself until the cage gets here.

Quick question: where is the best spot to begin my life story journal? It will cover chastity as well as domestic and sexual bondage/servitude. Should I use a specific subforum or just write it in my profile?

I have a device very much like that one. You might want to stop by a local hardware store and grab some tubing, because the standard supply isn’t long enough to cover the hinge area properly. The edges can end up curling upward and irritating the underside of your scrotum. Make sure you get tubing that is long enough to cover about five-eighths of the ring. My device was a bargain-bin knockoff that eventually became impossible to wear because there was too much slop between where the cage met the ring. I hope yours is higher quality! Another issue I ran into with my device was that the insert felt too long. It needed shortening, and if you do this, be sure it gets polished smooth and free of rough edges before you start using your shortened version.

Thanks a lot! I’ll definitely add tubing and polish that insert. With about an inch flaccid and less than five inches erect, this seems like the best way to avoid pullout until my owners allow me to get a Prince Albert piercing.