Introductions discussion

So I’m in a completely D/s dynamic (can we even use that term?). She isn’t really my girlfriend. I want to give this a shot because it catches my interest. She mentioned she is extremely strict about chastity and expects me to wear one. At first, she’ll take things slowly, but eventually, the lock will stay on. However, I can take it off when playing sports or hitting the gym (Great news!). My worries are that my penis might shrink and that I won’t be able to have sex with a girl whenever I please? What should I expect while wearing a device? Usually, I’m hard all the time.. Thanks everyone.

Welcome Azilol to our community. I'm not sure what exactly you are looking for regarding chastity? Being locked in a device by your keyholder means you lose the ability to have sex whenever you want it. Also, while locked up, you likely won't get hard often; that is actually part of the point of chastity. Take some time to browse and read through our threads. You will pick up a lot about what this lifestyle entails. Many members here are very willing to share their experiences.

You might also consider filling out your profile a bit more. It helps others understand where you stand and learn a little about you.

Yes, that's correct. I think your Mistress is quite kind to allow you to take it off during games. Oh, but you won't be able to do much with girls while locked up.

Oh man, what's a good excuse for not wearing one?

Um, @Azilol, there isn't really an excuse if your Mistress wants you to wear it. Medically speaking, I suppose there might be some reasons, and finding the right cage is always a consideration. However, if you truly desire a submissive dynamic with a lady who insists on chastity, there aren't many other options. You can discuss limits and your specific hesitations and fears with her. The whole point of chastity is that it isn't up to you anymore. You don't get to remove the device whenever you want, certainly not just to have sex when the mood strikes. Your desires are no longer the main focus. That is exactly what appeals to those who enjoy this lifestyle. I agree with @xcitedsisssy . Are you sure chastity is right for you?

It does sound like you are more of a "part-time" player here. You want to spice up your sex life because it's taboo, rather than living the full-time lifestyle where SHE controls everything and you get punished even for making suggestions.