Introductions discussion

Greetings from bright Manchester in the UK! Some details about me: I’m a 41-year-old guy, and due to my job, I’ve been wearing chastity for roughly ten years. My former partner got me into it, and during five of our seven years together, we experimented with various gadgets—from inexpensive plastic ones to metal models. She did a great job encouraging me to eat healthier, shed pounds, work out, and dress up for “girl nights” while watching Netflix and painting my nails (it’s amazing what you’ll do when locked away lol). Unfortunately, right after I got the PA piercing specifically to ensure more secure chastity (since I used to be quite good at escaping) and once it healed properly, our relationship fell apart (I won’t get into the reasons; it just happened). So my dream of long-term wear is paused until I locate the perfect gadget. I believe I’ve found it and plan to purchase a Steelworxx secure cage in January, assuming the money holds out. Next, I’ll need someone with the key, or perhaps an understanding partner who enjoys holding keys and playing along (and keeping me slim—I really lack the self-discipline to manage that on my own):D I’ve realized that I enjoy being locked up. I like looking polished, with long nails, lovely dresses, and high heels attached… and finding this out about myself has made me content. That’s the gist of it.. Hello!

Hi @NightA. You are very welcome here, and I hope you have a wonderful time.

The key point is that you feel good about yourself. It’s like having a heavy burden lifted once you accept that this is who you are and it suits you. Now, which dress and blouse should I wear......choices, choices...hmmmmm!