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I'm still getting the hang of this forum and plan to bring my wife along this weekend. We're in a growing FLR, and I've been picking up so much from all you…

member_74261f17c6 5 Sept 2026 #1

I’m still getting the hang of this forum and plan to bring my wife along this weekend. We’re in a growing FLR, and I’ve been picking up so much from all you Mansion members. I’d love for her to receive just as much help and encouragement.

I notice there are sections dedicated to different kinds of residents like Sissies and Cucks, but where do the Mistresses or Masters hang out? Is The Pedestal a good fit? Several Mistresses have sent me kind words, so I’m confident my wife will find that same support here too.

Thanks for all the wonderful help.

member_4a68d4482a 5 Sept 2026 #2

Hi, Does your wife have her own profile? It really helps if she does, along with a separate password. That way, they can chat privately without you reading every word. Plus, it's much simpler for other Mistresses to reach out and know they're speaking directly to your wife. Xx Wendy

member_08d7fef9a1 7 Sept 2026 #3

> Jasmic68 said: > I'm still navigating this forum and hoping to introduce my wife this weekend. We're in a developing FLR, and I've been learning so much from the Mansion members here. I hope she can receive as much help and support as I have. > > I see sections for various types of residents like Sissies and Cucks, but where is the space specifically for Mistresses or Masters? Is there such a place? Would The Pedestal work well? Several Mistresses have sent me encouraging messages, so I know my wife will benefit from that same support. > > Thanks for the great help! Dear Jasmic, If we had a public area specifically for mistresses to chat, it would quickly get flooded with male posts. She is very welcome here and will find plenty of friendly advice and tips from other keyholders. As Wendy mentioned, though, she'll need her own profile before that can happen.

member_74261f17c6 8 Sept 2026 #4

@Wendygirl Absolutely! We each have our own iPads, and I cannot get into hers. Even if there was a way, I wouldn't break into her account anyway; her private conversations are truly just that—even on Facebook or her phone, I never look at her messages or texts. @Mascara^Snake Mistress, soon after I posted the question, I realized I should have worded it differently. Even if there is such a place, I see two immediate problems: first, why would you tell me about it in the first place? Second, what stops me from setting up a fake Dom account so I can get in too? I come from an IT background, so while specific level-based privileges could keep a forum area private, that doesn't quite answer my concerns. Thank you both for answering. I look forward to introducing her. I think what I was really looking for were reasons she would want to invest her precious time here in the Mansion, and you have provided exactly the kind of helpful response that will show how supportive members and staff are.