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Hey everyone, I'm new here and just discovered this site, thinking it'd be a perfect spot to learn and explore. About seven months ago, I bought a chastity…

member_f61b1a9996 5 Sept 2026 #1

Hey everyone, I’m new here and just discovered this site, thinking it’d be a perfect spot to learn and explore. About seven months ago, I bought a chastity cage online on impulse—it was nothing fancy, just an inexpensive starter model—because my boyfriend and I are increasingly enjoying our dom (him) and sub (me) dynamic. It pinched and tugged at first, but I still managed to wear it for several days in total. I absolutely loved the experience.

Embracing my submissive side doesn’t come naturally to me; however, that moment when the cage clicked shut for the very time was transformative. Now here we are!:)

I did plenty of research and decided getting a PA (penile attachment) done was the right move. After six months, I feel confident enough in my healed PA to start wearing a device—not full-time yet—but I really miss being locked up.

Because the PA is still relatively fresh and only 6 gauge, I wanted something lightweight and customizable. With the idea of surprising him in mind, I secretly ordered the Evotion Wearable cage (seven PA version) recently. So hello! I haven’t truly been locked for any significant length of time yet, but now I have a device suitable for wearing out of the house. I’m so excited about it (Evotion is closed this week for the holidays), and I can’t wait to get things rolling properly once they’re back.

That’s a bit about me. I do have many other questions regarding devices and what life is like being locked on more permanently, but I expect those are best addressed individually in their own threads.

Thanks if you’ve read this far! Looking forward to spending some time here.

member_0d5abbcfd7 8 Sept 2026 #2

Hello and welcome aboard.