Introductions discussion

Hello all! I’m a new member here hoping to connect and exchange messages with fellow members. Also fairly new to this lifestyle, so I’m seeking advice on chastity devices for beginners…

Welcome aboard! Are you hoping to hold the key yourself or introduce your partner into the male chastity world? Please share a bit about your situation and we’ll do our best to assist. Regarding devices, since I’m still somewhat new myself, I’ve found this one to be top-notch: easy to manage and very secure

Hello and welcome to the Mansion @kinkykierstencd You’ll discover a ton of info about chastity devices in The Mall section of the Forum.

Hello Kinky and welcome! Also, Merry Christmas. x

Welcome! I hope you find this site as useful and welcoming as I do. Merry X-mas and a Happy New Year! Hugs.

Hey everyone, and thank you all for taking the time to reply! It’s nice knowing I’m welcome here. My wife and I are new to this scene, and we’re interested in her becoming my key holder! We’ve recently discovered the joys of cross dressing as well and look forward to expanding on that again. Thanks once more for your replies; hope you all have a wonderful Christmas!

Welcome! I’m new here myself and find it hard to navigate sometimes—happy to help if I can. Love hearing from devoted Key Holders.

Hi jblocked, thanks! I hope I’ll be in chastity soon as my wife and I are looking for my first device!

I strongly suggest investing in a mature metal custom cage. We have the Queens Keep, and he can wear it around the clock if I choose to.

Hi @kinkykierstencd, nice to meet you. I did it in reverse order: discovered chastity first, convinced my wife I was serious before she agreed to be my KH, and now she’s settling into the role quite well. In fact, last week she even picked up cross dressing! What a way to end 2015:D If you experience anything like the fun I have, you’re in for an amazing ride. For your first device, I suggest measuring your penis several times throughout the day to get a good average flaccid length. Measure from the tip of the glans down to where it meets the scrotum. Use that number to determine if a device will fit snugly; you want it tight enough so there’s little room for swelling, which can be uncomfortable. As for getting something custom, I’d wait until you’re certain this is what you want and have a rough idea of sizing. Personally, I use the Holy Trainer, though it doesn’t suit everyone above all else: just enjoy yourself! It’s quite mental, but if it isn't fun, you're doing it wrong. Happy Boxing Day.:)