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the archived discussion I posted my intro thread here and will keep you updated on how things are going. My heart was pounding with nerves but also relief as I handed over the phone to my princess. At least there’s nothing left hidden. I’m not chatting up other women anymore. The feedback on my photos turned out better than I hoped. I’ve looked through the galleries here and have downloaded those same pictures with their captions. She hasn’t shared any of her fantasies yet… We were watching television, and she kept remarking things like “oooh, you didn’t tell me about this. Interesting…” She’d bite her lip and twirl a strand of hair. The only thing that might have bothered her was the site itself. Or maybe not really. Her main comment was just, youre telling these people details you keep from me. Thats not cool. I’m still locked up but I’ve enjoyed some other delightful activities. Tonight I plan to run her a bubble bath and see if she wants to listen to my thoughts. I’ll do my best to explain how much it excites me to serve as her toy, showing that she can enjoy more pleasure and relaxation while I attend to her. Fingers crossed…

> GirlfriendsTooHot said: > the archived discussion > There's my intro thread, here I'll be updating our situation. > With a very nervous, yet relieved sensation, I gave my princess my phone. > Now, I don't have anything to hide. I don't talk to other girls. But her reaction to my pictures went better than I expected. I've seen the galleries here, I have the same captioned pictures downloaded. > She still hasn't told me any of her fantasies... > We were watching TV and she kept saying stuff like "oooh, you didn't tell me about this. Interesting..." She'd bite her lip and play with her hair. > I think the only thing that might have upset her was this site. Maybe not though. All she said was, youre telling these people things you don't tell me. Thats not cool. > I still haven't got unlocked but I did get to do some other very fun things. Tonight I'm gonna make her a bubble bath and see if she wants to hear what I have to say. I'm going to try my best to explain how much it turns me on to worship her and be her toy, and that she can have more pleasure and relax more with me serving her. Wish me luck... > Click to expand... Best of luck, and good for you for taking this step; sooner or later she has to realize the truth. One heads-up: submission means total surrender to her authority. She holds all the cards now, so it's her dream scenario rather than just yours. You noted that your piercing leaves absolutely no escape route from the device unless she permits it—is that correct?

> ChasteHubby2015 said: > Good luck and I commend you for doing this, she has to find out eventually. A word of warning, submission means total submission to her, she is now in complete control and it's now her fantasy, not yours. You mentioned in your post that that you're pierced wi absolutely no way out of your device without her permission, is that right? > Click to expand... Spot on sir, I doubt there will ever be a loophole for me. Not that I'd want one. It went very smoothly overall. My princess enjoyed a hot bath and massage before she questioned why I wanted her to cheat. I felt like it took an age to formulate my response. I mentioned the jokes about big black cocks you used when you first started working at our house, plus how much you appreciate that dildo. She agreed but noted there was quite a bit more between us needing clarification before she'd discuss it further. Without pressing too hard, I explained that after doing so much to manage our household, coming home makes me want to switch off and let someone else call the shots. Thankfully I avoided using the word "I" too much. I promised her zero housework for life. Her eyes sparkled, asking "even cooking?" She despises cooking but is actually quite skilled at it. We went back and forth until she started grasping that although wanting to do more work upon returning home might seem odd, the core reason is her being in charge. This morning she asked if I wanted to cum. I kissed her and said yes, only to receive a "too bad, I'm in charge now. It sure would be sad if you got off and had a change of heart." I hope she doesn't feel the pace is too rapid or get overwhelmed by it all. Because I truly love this.

> GirlfriendsTooHot said: > That's right sir, I doubt I'll ever find a way to escape. Not that I want to. > Everything went really well. My princess got a hot bath and a massage before she asked me, why I wanted to see her cheat on me. > It felt like forever before I had an answer for her. I said it's partly those big black cock jokes you made when you first started working at my place, and how much you enjoy the dildo. > She agreed but said she had alot more between us that had to be explained before she would talk about it again. > So without much prying on her part, I explained that after all I do to take care of our things, when I come home I feel like I want to let go and have someone else make decisions. Thankfully I stopped using that word "I." > I told her that she would never have to do any housework ever again. Her eyes lit up, and she said "even cooking?" > She hates to cook, but she's great at it. > So we went back and forth, she's starting to understand that even though it seems weird I want to do more work when I get home, its more so with her being in charge. > This morning she asked if I wanted to cum. I kissed her and said yes, but got a "too bad, I'm in charge now. It sure would be sad if you got off and had a change of heart." > I hope she doesn't think things are moving too fast and get overwhelmed with this. Because I love it > Click to expand... That's wonderful! If I may ask, how long did your healing process take before the chastity device could be worn? It sounds like she is growing quite fond of male chastity. Allow me some advice: The crucial point to emphasize is that you remain her manly partner as always, with one key difference: she is the boss and holds final authority over all relationship matters. She decides when, if, and how you cum, using your sexual desire to motivate you to do almost anything she has ever dreamed of having done for her—tasks most women would never expect from a man, including cooking and cleaning! All this while she enjoys oral sex or strapon whenever the mood strikes outside of the times you are released. Additionally, she gains the peace of mind knowing your penis cannot erect at all, let alone masturbate to thoughts of another woman without permission. With that PA piercing in place, there is absolutely no chance for you to slip away behind her back; she has 100% total control over your orgasm. She needs to understand that because she leads, she gets to determine how much kink fits into the dynamic. For instance, if cuckolding isn't her thing, then it doesn't have to be yours too, and you are happy with whatever choice she makes. This male chastity lifestyle is no longer centered on your wants but rather what she desires from it. What you gain—and find happiness in—is simply knowing that she is pleased and content at the highest level possible. Tell her this isn't just a want for you, but a need to achieve ultimate romantic commitment and attentiveness through practicing male chastity with a loving yet firm key holder/significant other. Feel free to share my thoughts with her if it helps ease her mind. Knowing this will make her feel much more at peace with the situation. It is great to see she isn't pitying you or just giving in; she feels confident enough to take full control. Best wishes to both of you, and please keep us updated.

Thank you sir, I'll share this depending on her mood. I would say it took about two months to heal completely, though I waited three months before putting the device on. It only required a couple of weeks to adjust to it. The house is tidy now, and I have some Italian food ordered that I will pick up soon. I also bought myself a little treat; I texted her not to worry about spending her money because she is all I need. She replied "just wait and see how much you need me." Hopefully, that was a tease. I wonder how her day off tomorrow goes. Hopefully, she doesn't lift a finger around the house. I'll return shortly, thank you for the advice.

Eating lunch and received an amazing text. Just wonderful. More on that later. She is bringing me more joy than she realizes.