Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Here’s a compilation of gestures that reinforce our position, with preference given to the more understated ones.

1. When she holds your heavy, throbbing testicles in her palm and bounces them slightly to gauge their heaviness
2. When she rests a hand on your buttock or inner thigh as you drift off
3. When she voices complaints about needing relief

My Wife simply gives me That Look. Verbal communication isn't needed. It signals that I need to figure out my mistake and take action. Is that subtle enough?