Introductions discussion

I trust I’ll pick up a lot of knowledge here. The lifestyle really catches my attention. Sadly, I likely won’t end up getting the surgery. My relationship is vanilla and I’m fifty-nine years old. Still, it’s fine; I look forward to chatting with everyone and experiencing things through your stories.

> ryderhd said: > I trust I'll pick up a lot of knowledge here. The lifestyle really catches my attention. Sadly, I likely won't end up getting the surgery. My relationship is vanilla and I'm fifty-nine years old. Still, it's fine; I look forward to chatting with everyone and experiencing things through your stories. > Click to expand... Welcome @ryderhd - we all do things differently, and being honest and realistic about yourself and what might or might not happen is no bad thing at all. So, what exactly "deeply intrigues" you? You may have already noticed that this is a very friendly and supportive group here, with plenty of information available. Get involved! Fill out your profile more so people can get to know you better. Have fun; it could become your little haven on the internet.:)

Welcome @ryderhd. I hope you find CM quite interesting. At fifty-nine years old, I didn't know much about a lot of things either! I never considered the remote possibility that my wife of over 20 years would ever take control or that macho me might consider submitting. Also, even though I had experimented with wearing feminine clothing occasionally, I wouldn't have thought I'd one day become a full-fledged sissy. All those changes happened after I was your age (I am now well past seventy!!). I suggest you leave your options open because 59 really isn't considered that old anymore. You will likely experience some rather dramatic physical shifts as you get older. For me, my testosterone has dropped significantly, my body no longer grows hair, my skin is softer, and my persona is much mellow. Discussing with others around my age, these changes seem quite normal. Our journey into chastity has shown me all the mistakes I made throughout life, career, marriage, etc., because of "thinking with my penis". Now, thanks to my Mistress showing me the way through chastity, I look at things much more objectively and realistically. (She calls my condition R.E.D. - Required Erectile Dysfunction!) So, read the various articles and posts on CM, join the chat room to discuss experiences with others, and post often. But remember to "be careful what you ask for"!!!

You are not old at all; this has done wonders for our marriage of 33 years. He is fifty-six and I am fifty-one.