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Hi everyone, I am male in a relationship with my girlfriend. Fantasizing about chastity is a sure way to get me aroused. I have talked about that with my…
Hi everyone, I am male in a relationship with my girlfriend. Fantasizing about chastity is a sure way to get me aroused. I have talked about that with my girlfriend and I eventually bought a CB-6000 device. We have played with it for a little bit but not excessively. When we have sex, we do include anything kinky there, we just have have sex. When we do kinky stuff, it’s her playing with me. The thing is that while I am aroused my fantasy tells me that I would really like my girlfriend to seize power and lock me into the device. She lets me talk about those things while she assists me in masturbating when we do kinky stuff. The moment that I came with the fantasy of being denied, I stop to think that chastity is an idea that I like. Then I am glad that we do not do that. However, when I am a little aroused the next day, I think that it would be very exciting to be locked up for her. A couple times I took the CB-6000 and locked myself in there. When she came home, I gave her the keys and she would keep them for the evening. At best, she would then tease me later that night and eventually let me cum. So the chastity was just foreplay starting at noon or afternoon. One time she did not unlock me and let me sleep with the device. I did not really like that as I really wanted to cum that same night. My girlfriend is not really dominant, so if I tell her that I would like to come that night, she would also let me do it. She just tries to do what I think makes me happy. (Which makes for a very nice relationship, all in all.) Lately I often catch myself with thoughts about being locked up. For instance she was going to be on a business travel for some six weeks. The kinky part of my brain directly suggested that being locked up would be very exciting for the time. So using a plastic numbered lock, having her tease me via text messages and demanding pictures of the device with the number every now and then. On the other hand, masturbating does relax me and she does not have a problem with that. So I could imagine that six weeks in chastity would just make me very unhappy. So currently I think that having chastity for the occasional evening session is a nice foreplay for me, but I also like the fantasy of her having me lick her spontaneously during the day or that I actually massage her more often than I currently do (she really loves that). Perhaps some of you have some experience how this could be slowly transformed into something that is a better compromise of fantasy and reality?
If you truly do this and are able to stop masturbating then you will be paid back ten fold for your efforts. If you could last those six weeks the feelings you would get while licking your girlfriend would blow your mind. If she denied you an orgasm at first and left you in the device you would then find out how mind blowing this can be. Then, when she lets you, prepare for the most earth shattering orgasm of your life. Seriously, I cannot urge you enough to try it. What is the worst that can happen? You can do it and then decide it's how you want to live the rest of your life!:D