Introductions discussion

Long time listener first time caller Hello to all officially. The site and members are truly fantastic. The blogs, the fun, the serious and helpful discussions all brilliant. The set-up Got out of lockup a week ago (4 days locked no nights)… self locked… as with many here my gf doesn’t know about it I choose my lockup times carefully and all the tricks we use to hide our little secrets away. She has been ill of late and sex is off the table for a bit understandably so, hence the lock and key approach. So here is the conundrum. So for the last 4 days I have been trying to cum… porn hub and tumblr have been my drug of choice. I jerk trying to maximise the enjoyment edge maybe once or twice then the build up to the orgasm that I have postponed… and then I get disturbed a phone call, visitors etc today should be the day… then again should it? The prestige Should I release the beast so to speak? OR should I proceed with the rigorous workout I’ve been giving my arm? All comments welcome of course. From the hilariously insightful to the somewhat condemning and gloriously questioning… everything in between too.

If you want to cum, why the chastity? Chastity is to prevent masterbation and cumming. Not sure what you want out of chastity?

Thanks a lot. I'll take this as the wonderfully inquisitive part of it, and for my answer: to me, **chastity** is all about that teasing buildup, pushing past just wanting to cum until you actually need to, with even more buildup on top. For me, being chaste isn't about never coming; it's simply delaying the big moment.