Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi all. New here for the first time.I’ve been keen on beginning my chastity journey but I’m unsure how to bring it up with my wife. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated; my biggest worry is that she might panic and bolt.We have a solid bond, though we aren’t exactly open-book partners.I haven’t received my device yet because I’m afraid of her having a meltdown (I really hope to get it today:)) and I’d prefer not to just throw the idea at her. Any tips are welcome, thanks.

It is definitely a bit of a puzzle on how to introduce it for the first time. Don't make the same mistake I did: buying the device, putting it on immediately, and then presenting yourself to her with flair! My wife tends toward the vanilla side, so that was completely the wrong approach; she got quite startled and initially had nothing to do with it at all. Look through my threads below to see how we eventually made chastity play a part in our daily lives. It hasn't been a smooth path, with plenty of halts, starts, and fluctuations along the way. the referenced community page the referenced community page Stay calm and open-minded, moving at her speed, letting her process it first. I struggle to be spontaneous, so for my second attempt, I sent an email including some links that explained chastity from a woman-friendly viewpoint. This broke the ice and restarted our dialogue; you can find them via the links above. Now she grasps the kink and sees how it benefits both of us, making our relationship stronger than before. Best wishes!

Are there any websites I can send her to?