Introductions discussion

Hi everyone! My name is Kelly and my BF and I are brand new to all things chastity but really want to try it out. I was googling to try and find some more information, came across this site and figured it would be a good place to try! I will be posting some more questions etc going forward, but just wanted to say hi first! Also, I would be happy to chat with anyone about their experiences first starting out with this and how that went for them. Thanks!

Welcome, Kelltpte! I trust that you will find CM to be most interesting and informative. And, as a direct result of your reading here, your BF is sure to "benefit" vicariously! Enjoy the site and post often. Please let us know about your particular chastity journey!

Welcome there is alot of help here what device do you have and how is he doing locked

Thanks all! and he actually isnt locked yet, having some trouble finding the right cage, but hopefully soon!

Good luck finding the right cage and welcome to you both

Welcome Miss Kelly, you're well on your way to being worshipped and having everything you could have ever imagined having as a woman. Just stick to it and you will see the benefits. Good luck!

My advise is to buy a few different steel (not chrome) Chinese devices that you can find cheap on Amazon, eBay or other sites, try to find ones that have several ring sizes so you can work out which is right for you. Alternatively buy a genuine CB6000 or 6000s. Don't buy a cheap CB6000 knock off. I have experience of how bad they are and literally have scars to prove it and I have heard others stories of them splitting. This does nasty things to your man. You might want to lock him up, maybe forever, but you don't want him potentially injured! I have recently discovered how amazing Lovehoney is and they have a no quibble one year return policy. A second piece of advice is to measure your mans penis throughly and get a small as possible cage to fit it. Heavy and too large devices are a disaster. Other than that my Wife's advice is to have fun and take it slow.

Kelly, part of the fun of chastity for me was going thru the process of finding a satisfactory cage TOGETHER. Mistress understood my plight and wanted us both to have a good experience which, in the end, is more about Her control of my mind than it is of my penis. Selecting the cage together will also make sure that communication is open and nothing is held back! Enjoy your journey!

> Jasmic68 said: > A second piece of advice is to measure your mans penis throughly and get a small as possible cage to fit it. Heavy and too large devices are a disaster. > > Click to expand... We looked at the CB series, but being blunt he is one of those guys who is well endowed, and the issue is not finding a cage thats small enough but one that is large enough, it has been quite a challenge! > DonnaSue said: > Kelly, part of the fun of chastity for me was going thru the process of finding a satisfactory cage TOGETHER. Mistress understood my plight and wanted us both to have a good experience which, in the end, is more about Her control of my mind than it is of my penis. Selecting the cage together will also make sure that communication is open and nothing is held back! Enjoy your journey! > Click to expand... We are looking together but thanks for the advice! He reads these forums with me most of the time, tho it is hard to keep him under control when he does!