Introductions discussion

Hello everyone - I’m truly happy to have stumbled upon this website while looking into male chastity and would be delighted to spend a moment introducing myself to The Mansion. I’ve been in a deeply affectionate partnership for three years now, yet I’ve struggled with my urges the whole time. It felt like something I had always handled on my own, but since I’m with someone I adore so much, I thought it was finally time to address it properly. At 32 and she’s 24; we reside in North Wales, UK, working for ourselves within the hospitality industry. Our sex life is quite standard by most accounts, and we found ourselves stuck in a routine, managing intimacy only about three or four times each month. A major factor here has been my urge to sneak off up to three or four times daily for masturbation. That said, as of four days ago, none of those options are physically open to me anymore, and I’m so thankful for that. She holds the key now, and even though this arrangement is brand new for both of us, she seems to be relishing her part while gaining more influence in our dynamic. She’s already noted that the cage is “working wonders” since I’ve become much more attentive to her needs and have taken on a larger share of household chores. If anyone here would like updates on our first few days post-locking, I’d be glad to provide them. Our approach might seem somewhat unique compared to others in The Mansion (based on what I’ve seen), largely due to our relative novelty and still learning the ropes. We definitely value your collective wisdom and are both thrilled about where this sexual journey goes next…