Introductions discussion

I’ve mostly been watching from the sidelines and thought it was time to check in and share a bit about us.

After nearly 19 years of marriage with my wonderful wife, we’ve spent the last five-plus years diving into some kinky play, using this Lit forum as our main hangout. I have always had submissive tendencies; while we switch roles occasionally, by nature I am submissive and she enjoys taking on the dominant role.

We communicate openly and are generally willing to try new things, though sometimes there’s hesitation in sharing fantasies—like when I was hesitant to bring up Pegging, only to discover she has wondered about it too. Turns out we both enjoy it!

We aren’t strictly 24/7; with teenage kids and normal routines, our play usually happens on weekend nights where she is typically the Top. However, I love worshipping my wife and do what I can during the week.

I’ve often fantasized about being locked up and controlled, which led me here to lurk.

Today, while receiving some teasing texts from my wife, I decided to bring up chastity. I started with a cryptic text that just committed us to at least having a conversation when we were home. Being impatient, I followed up with a direct clue using this copied message: “Hell, I’m impatient - here’s a clue someone on forum posted. Only thinking for occasional play. ↑ I love to wear my man’s key around my neck.:D I get to caress it during the day and smile thinking about him at his job all locked up…”

Ten long minutes passed with no response, making me think I might have gone too far this time… Finally came her reply: “Ah! I’ve been wondering if you would do that for me.” That hit right to my core. My blood felt like it was boiling—I couldn’t be happier…:)

Next step: choosing a device. I’m currently leaning toward an affordable Chinese stainless steel option, so it’s time to research. I don’t see us doing more than occasional kinky play for now. Just felt like sharing and saying hello. Best,

Enjoy. It’s indeed a nice read!:)

Hello @CZSteve and it’s nice that you’ve come here now.