Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I find myself at a bit of a crossroads. I’ve been slowly easing into this world for some time now. Because of work demands and a touch of hesitation, my cage isn’t on all the time. Still, I manage to stay chaste even without it. Right now I’m in an Emlalock session; technically, the lock is off. I put the device on when it feels right, comfortable, or when I sense control slipping away. I self-lock myself, which I believe is the toughest method.

My primary goals for chastity are: a) to abstain and let my libido build so that release becomes meaningful, and b) to endure denial long enough to become dripping wet uncontrollably, potentially triggering a prostate orgasm.

I’ve never experienced a prostate-induced one (or what they call an “sissygasm”) before, but the concept of having no penile stimulation really excites me.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve extended my time without. Reaching a full week hasn’t been too difficult. Last week I gave in and lost control; this week has gone much smoother for me. Although, I nearly edged myself out last night!

So here is my question: Should I purchase a suitable toy now with the goal of achieving that sissygasm, or am I just overthinking things because it’s only been one week? I haven’t started dripping yet—ever really—and when this current period began, I hoped to reach two weeks. Can I still do that if I have a sissygasm? Does that count as release at all?

I’d appreciate your advice on which path is best.

To start with, don't worry about it. It should be enjoyable rather than a chore. It's largely a mindset and a target to approach day by day. You have to resist temptation, which I know is difficult. The device itself isn't the final answer; it's just an aid in reaching your goal. A friend of mine who does C/D (Chastity/Denial) gave me this advice when I first tried self-chastity: "One day leads to another. Soon you'll have a week, then a month, and eventually several months." She turned out to be right.