Journals and blogs discussion

It seems I’ll be entering into a weekly routine every Sunday morning. My wife, who holds the key, will decide based on my conduct throughout the week if I get to come out for some T&D. We’re also considering an online contract that mirrors what we are already doing quite well. This agreement just sharpens certain details, such as confirming that even when uncaged, I cannot climax without her say-so. A fresh addition is a rule stating I begin each week owing 10 thwacks, which I must earn off through the week on top of any penalties for breaking rules—something I excel at doing. Last Sunday marked our first session under this new setup. Here’s a brief summary: We were relaxing in bed when she removed my cage and instructed me to stroke it myself. After two weeks straight of being locked up, unable to get hard or touch the device, wow, that felt incredible. Suddenly, she ordered “Stop and turn over!”, grabbed her leather riding crop (our thwacker), and delivered a firm strike to my bottom. “That counts as one. We’re going through the six you owe right now.” The next few minutes involved me stroking myself briefly before turning back for another hard hit from the thwacker. Again…and again… “This is what I call sweet and spicy honey,” she remarked. The sweetness comes from the pleasure of handling my cock, while the spice is the sharp pain as the thwacker presses down on my vulnerable rear. Once that sixth strike landed, she declared, “OK - no orgasm for you today. Put the cage back on.” The only thing I could manage was a soft, submissive “Thank you Goddess” throughout it all. I can’t wait for this Sunday! You know I’ll be behaving myself.

I'm curious to understand if there's a method behind your keyholder's 'sweet and spicy' approach; is it part of the training regimen or just for her amusement?