Introductions discussion

As I type this out on the morning of day five, I am locked into a steel belt. My wife lies beside me with her hand lazily teasing the exposed parts of my genitals; her soft fingertips lightly touch and stroke. Sometimes she rests her palm on the tube, and through the steel, I feel her warmth heating up my already hot member, which is half-swollen and bulging.

We are new to this all around. We discussed it for about a year before getting here. The device arrived, and except for her checking everything for 10 minutes on day two, we have been at it 24/7 so far. She loves it, especially the feel of that hard steel bulge. This morning she told me how much she enjoys keeping me permanently aroused, which is exactly what’s happening. Each night I am almost always in a semi-erect state.

The penis tube of the device (photos coming soon) has vertical slits down each side. I can feel my wife’s buttocks nestled against my imprisoned cock on either side; her soft flesh makes me groan as I snuggle up to her.

It is good. Like many here who have partners actively engaging in their chastity routines, I brought the idea to my wife initially. She wasn’t overly enthusiastic at first. My worry was that once we got the device, it would become little more than a trinket gathering dust in a cupboard, or worse, create distance between us. But I hoped it would bring us closer—a secret shared by us two—focusing on her receiving endless pleasure and finding fun in seeing me locked up.

A few months ago, things shifted. She seemed much more open to the concept. We committed to trying this for at least a year. Knowing myself well enough that if I weren’t securely held, I would find ways to wiggle out and sneak some relief, she knows my tendencies too. So we ordered a very modular device. When we are together, I simply wear the belt with the penis tube attachment. If we spend time apart, she adds a Hannibal Lector-style steel cage over everything else. And if she wants pictures of me squirming, she will add a steel prostate-massaging butt plug that locks in via the rod passing through my crotch (more photos to follow).

Day by day, and we are still very early on, I grow more comfortable in the belt—it has only been removed once since it arrived—and she seems to discover new ways the belt affects me. It is impacting her positively; she finds fun feels hornier, and derives pleasure from knowing she owns everything: lock, stock, and barrel.

She is starting a profile here as well. I hope we meet others like us—relaxed folks just exploring how far they can take this lifestyle.

I am including the shot from, the belt manufacturer who were excellent in meeting our needs. We also hope to add more personal photos as we get more comfortable with what we are doing. [[Image: belt with plug 1.jpg]](the referenced community page)