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Greetings all. I am new to this platform and also fresh in the world of chastity play. As a young, self-locked Russian gay man, I suspect I need an online…

member_dcef18419d 6 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings all. I am new to this platform and also fresh in the world of chastity play. As a young, self-locked Russian gay man, I suspect I need an online keyholder, though I haven’t quite decided yet. I have experienced some highs and lows within this lifestyle, but now I truly feel like I fit in here. Right now I am locked up, which is frustrating because it means taking off my device whenever I go dancing. Since I head out three times a week for that, it’s becoming an issue. That was mostly on my mind. It’s lovely to meet you all.

member_6c5e93d418 6 Sept 2026 #2

Hi Daniel - or @HornyDaniel - it is great to hear that you feel like part of the group here:) Other members have plenty of information and support to offer. I believe we are a community built on sharing - exchanging advice, our personal histories, and experiences - while also providing encouragement. It is nice meeting you as well:)

member_0d5abbcfd7 8 Sept 2026 #3

hello @HornyDaniel and welcome to the community. It is perfectly fine to go dancing; you can keep your cage on if you prefer.

member_6bb95a510f 8 Sept 2026 #4

I wear my cage almost everywhere and do nearly everything while caged. Dancing shouldn't be a major problem for you. Give it a try and update us on how it goes.