Introductions discussion

Hello! I’m fairly new to the chastity world and figured joining a solid community was the best way to jump in! I live in Melbourne at age 19. I’ve been locked for almost two days now inside a brand-new Birdlocked Pico that I picked up as an online deal! Right now, it’s just me and the cage, nothing fancy. I’m really excited about this new phase of life and eager to see how things develop! Feel free to message me if you have any questions! Hope we get to know each other soon!

Welcome. You'll discover that self-locking is quite distinct from the experience most of us with Key Holders have. We are locked up to please our KH and get teased constantly to stay aroused throughout the day. If I were self-locked, I'd unlock myself after a week rather than staying shut for two months at a stretch. I'd also miss having my wife edge me repeatedly. There's nothing wrong with orgasms; they're fun and free, so I wouldn't deny them to myself, only offering them up to a Mistress or loved one. Without a KH, you might find chastity boring. No partner to have sex with who focuses solely on their own release. No one there to touch you, bring you to the edge of an orgasm, stop, and then repeat endlessly. Essentially, there's no power exchange, which is the core reason for embracing chastity. I wouldn't lock my penis if my wife didn't want me to. Either way, enjoy it! But unless you find a Key Holder, I worry you'll get bored once that initial excitement fades. Try finding a KH for a much different experience.