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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hey everyone, I recently wanted to test whether I'd truly enjoy my personal fantasy, so I picked up an HT2. I spent last night locked in on my own and it…

member_e72afea32e 7 Sept 2026 #1

Hey everyone, I recently wanted to test whether I’d truly enjoy my personal fantasy, so I picked up an HT2. I spent last night locked in on my own and it was fantastic; now I want to extend the time! One lesson from lurking here is that men interested in this aren’t necessarily weak or poor with women. I date quite often and usually have one or two ladies around casually. Naturally, I’d love a relationship with a KH, but that takes time. How do other guys manage wanting locked periods while still going out to date?

member_4a68d4482a 8 Sept 2026 #2

Hi I spent two weeks in the Big Apple and pondered hard about whether I should stay permanently. OK so perhaps "dating" means something different across the Atlantic. Why can't you go out for a meal or see a movie? None of that changes just because you are caged. If you mean finding random sex, then yes, that's distinct. Obviously you have to decide. Above all, I would treat these ladies with respect, have fun, and enjoy going out without viewing them merely as tools for your pleasure or little more than that. Xx Wendy