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Hi there! I'm a 23-year-old man from Portugal, and first off, I want to say that I've always been looking for an FLR in my life but haven't yet found…

member_3fb4487e38 7 Sept 2026 #1

Hi there! I’m a 23-year-old man from Portugal, and first off, I want to say that I’ve always been looking for an FLR in my life but haven’t yet found someone willing. Right now, I’m in a vanilla relationship (we do have some toys), and I’m very content with it. Even though I often take on the role of the dominant partner—and enjoy it—my real joy lies in being submissive. I adore my girlfriend and am making every effort to help her get used to this dynamic. I haven’t experimented with chastity before, but alongside other kinks you can check out on my FetLife profile, I’d really like to give it a shot. Despite having a GF, I’m hoping to connect with someone who shares similar perspectives on this, especially those willing to offer some advice! Lastly, I’ve discovered a community where I feel free to express myself; thank you all so much! hertzz EDIT: Yes, that’s me in the avatar.

member_0d5abbcfd7 9 Sept 2026 #2

Hello @mrhertzz and welcome to here.