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When we first started dating she performed oral on me constantly. She even swallowed, mentioning once that while she typically isn’t a fan of it, she enjoyed taking mine.

Once the period of chastity began, she incorporated it during teasing sessions but only occasionally; I can barely recall the last time it happened.

I’m unsure whether she simply lacks the desire or believes that a “domme” shouldn’t perform this act because doing so is seen as a sign of weakness.

I don’t wish for her to feel pressured into behaving in a specific way just to suit her “role.” I also hesitate to ask, fearing it might make her feel obligated. If she genuinely doesn’t want to do it, that’s fine with me; I’ll miss it, but it comes with the package.

By the way, this isn’t about orgasms—they occur solely on her terms—but rather just the act itself.

Has anyone else here noticed a sudden drop in normal sexual activities once she took control of the decisions?

Steve, please add your thoughts on this one.

We didn't discuss it at all, I swear lol!!!

I wonder if my husband misses oral... hahaha

Mmmhmmmm I believe every word you say.

You once mentioned his size, so I wouldn't imagine that happens very often anyway.

He could probably reach it himself!!! I would have to be a circus attraction to manage reaching mine.