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Hello everyone I'm completely new here. My partner recently suggested I dive into BDSM with him, and today he asked me to wear a penis cage in the bedroom.…

member_e39c33b906 7 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone I’m completely new here. My partner recently suggested I dive into BDSM with him, and today he asked me to wear a penis cage in the bedroom. I’m quite vanilla and inexperienced when it comes to all of this, but while I’m open to giving it a go, I’d love some tips from those who know more than I do. Ideally before he gets back home and wants to get started lol. Thank you

member_f60e4bfbe5 9 Sept 2026 #2

There isn't a "correct" way to have a sexual relationship, but being open to trying is definitely a great place to start. The key to exploring and experimenting is exactly that: doing it. There will be moments when things feel like they aren't working out, but the best advice I can offer is to discuss everything with your partner, both before and after any activity (and if possible, without distraction during). Since a day has passed since you posted... did you manage to "get going"?;)