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Ms. Amanda, also known as @Mascara^Snake, was a beloved member for more than nine years, spending much of that time acting as a moderator. Even after…

member_ce7222df54 7 Sept 2026 #1

Ms. Amanda, also known as @Mascara^Snake, was a beloved member for more than nine years, spending much of that time acting as a moderator. Even after stepping down from her duties, she remained a trusted voice on matters of information and fairness within the growing discussions about chastity and related topics. Her profile and posts received 2652 likes, ranking her as the sixth most liked member in the community’s history. Had she not been blocked, that count would likely continue to rise. Her guidance, companionship, and knack for calling out nonsense when necessary were invaluable contributions to this platform. She supported many through difficult periods, frequently chatting with followers and friends both on and off topic, much like we do here. Not everyone gets along perfectly. Some people simply didn’t know how to deal with her strong personality and may have taken offense at her honesty. There are those who struggle with a confident woman, however petty or ironic that might be, especially in this community. Some folks act as litmus tests for the system’s health by exposing its flaws. This place is a unique social space where deep personal thoughts can be shared openly without judgment. Yet somehow, judgment was shifted onto Ms. Amanda and others like her. If such a prominent female member can be blocked with bias and exception, what about anyone who speaks up for those who cannot speak for themselves? Those who question authority or raise their safe word in difficult situations might face the same fate. I urge you to look within your hearts and minds and uphold justice for this matter. Do not stay silent and let old grievances fade away. Do not accept this bias toward any member, allowing such malice to affect those you care about, including yourself. Please cast your vote. Let democracy win.

member_a20cc5b40d 7 Sept 2026 #2

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member_b2eb839885 8 Sept 2026 #3

beck is right... The place feels like a desert without her. For some of us, she was the life and soul of this gathering. I have no desire to visit a site where men just swap tales about their cocks or 'devices', or discuss which dresses they prefer. Amanda was witty, sharp, provocative, stubbornly willful, beautiful, wise, and pretty much everything a key-holding lady could be. She has my vote. And she always will.

member_5778b0d078 8 Sept 2026 #4

It wasn't an easy decision for Admin. She added much value but also caused some damage, including (while serving as a Mod) editing her posts and those of others to the point where threads were totally distorted. Also, she posted wholly irrelevant and sometimes offensive videos and material in other threads (including mine), ruining them too. It seems there are many sock-puppet accounts sharing her IP address. Eventually, it got out of hand and Admin (along with others) simply had enough. Banning someone is quite rare and never happens without strong cause. I suggest you bring this up directly with Admin.

member_b2eb839885 8 Sept 2026 #5

Hmm... Perhaps her habit of calling a spade a spade worked against her as well. She knew that certain members, even some mods, claimed to be women in their profiles but weren't really. Distorting threads is bad enough, but willfully misrepresenting gender on an 'adult' site is also reprehensible. All things considered, it's been an unhealthy and duplicitous regime. For every 'sin' Amanda committed—and she could be both a brilliant contributor and an irritant—she was often brutally sinned against in return. Much of her activity involved defending herself under constant attack. But hey, let it go. The site is just plain dull without her; who cares?