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Hi everyone. I’m new to this place and I really enjoy reading through all these posts. My girlfriend introduced me to the forum, and we’ve been together for about five months now. We met via a close friend of ours. She’s fun, has an awesome personality, and is honestly exactly what I was looking for. I’ve dated quite a few women before, but I didn’t feel like I had truly connected with anyone until I started seeing Tiffiny. Tif and I get along really well, we laugh a lot, and she’s incredibly good-looking. She’s very comfortable discussing sexual matters. It’s rare to date someone who can talk about kinky topics so naturally without it feeling forced or awkward. She definitely has a dominant streak in her character. But honestly, I never saw that coming! I recently found out she used to wear chastity devices with an ex-boyfriend and really enjoyed the experience. She doesn’t hide the fact that arousal from this practice excites her. Trust me, I’m eager to please her, but I wasn’t sure what all of this entailed at first. Looking back, I see how she would ask questions that seemed strange then but make perfect sense now. I think she was testing the waters with those inquiries to see if she could lock me into one of these setups. Anyway, long story short, she surprised me with a small box. She told me it wasn’t mandatory, but promised I wouldn’t regret doing it. Inside was a heavy black bag. When I unzipped it, there sat my avatar picture inside! For a moment, I just stared in silence. In her typical smooth way, she convinced me to put the device on and sent me home for the night. The emotions were overwhelming. She helped guide me into position while I was already hard. She said that meant I liked the idea of wearing it. Being hard made sense because this gorgeous woman was handling my privates. Finally, she gave me a quick jerk off until I softened up enough to proceed. I felt ready for anything from her now. She walked me through getting the ring positioned. It hurt squeezing my testicles through the small opening. Then down went the shaft with some lube. We waited as arousal started building again. She slid everything in and locked it securely. WOW… what a sensation! I didn’t yet realize how much impact this would have. Walking out of her place felt strange. Back home, I headed to my room to examine this contraption closely. What had I gotten myself into? Studying it made me appreciate the design brilliance. Nothing touches areas that allow self-stimulation easily, yet the ring itself stimulates me intensely. Even though I’d just ejaculated three hours prior, I desperately wanted to jerk off again. The next morning, my groin was aching and begging for release. It felt unlike anything before. I had to get up and pace around because trying to stay hard in this tube hurt. As I got ready for work, figuring out what to do with the device on or off, it hit 7:00 am when I received a text. “Good morning sexy, Miss me yet” We exchanged several messages, but none of them helped my current state. She was teasing me and turning me on right now. The bigger worry for me is going to work wearing this thing. But there’s no escape at this point. It’s metal inside the casing; pulling or twisting won’t detach it easily unless I have a key. She texted asking if I’d visited the community, so here I am! I’m set from Sunday through Wednesday and haven’t been hornier in my life. Reading about others wearing theirs for weeks or months blows my mind—I don’t know how they manage! It’s only three days, but it feels endless. The saving grace is knowing I’ll be removing it tonight. More updates coming soon.

Interesting read, and welcome aboard! Expect a mix of fun times and torture ahead!

Your girlfriend sounds like she has everything planned out. If you trust her, expect an amazing journey. Welcome to the forum—have fun experimenting!

Since she is your girlfriend and not yet your wife, I suggest getting a copy of the key for yourself. She might take you on the ride of your life, but it’s wise to plan ahead with Plan B. Personally, I’ve been keeping our finances separate because I feel her desire for control is becoming too strong in my case. Our main issue has always been insufficient sex (from my perspective), and this new arrangement makes that problem worse. Tensions will rise soon enough. Envy you on the internet!

Sounds like quite a story. Just being locked up for an unextendable period right from day one, without an emergency key available. But it will be wonderful to finally take it off.

My best advice is for you to marry this amazing girl!;) Enjoy your new adventures, though I would be slightly concerned about the key situation given that your relationship is still fairly fresh.

Just to clarify, I have NOT been locked up for an extended period as @Zeb6 suggests. My first time wearing it was Friday night. She let me out Saturday evening and Sunday afternoon so we could check on things and enjoy some fun together. Since everything went well on Sunday, she suggested we try the Sun-Wed duration. So far, I’ve been in for a total of six days. Everyone else is making great points about having a key. As someone who leans towards being a midwest caged cuck, I am seriously considering it! No one has ever treated me this way before. Most people tell me to just go with the flow because it’s worth it. The orgasms are certainly rewarding when they come, but waiting between them is tormenting. However, I do agree that having a backup plan for a key is wise. Tonight, I need to settle arrangements regarding possession of one. She probably wouldn't give it up easily, but people can surprise you. If I secure a key for this device, I should be able to convince her that wearing it benefits us both. I’m going to text her now so we can discuss our plan tonight. Thanks everyone, great input. Can’t wait to remove the device tonight! My groin feels sore around the ring area, likely from moving about trying to find relief while still attached. I really need to cum soon. She says getting used to the initial soreness is normal for this kind of setup. Does anyone else agree? Is it possible to truly get accustomed to it? It’s quite a tease! Thanks again for the helpful responses.