Introductions discussion

I embarked on my chastity path about three weeks back. Like most guys who find themselves locked away, I’ve been looking for a way to masturbate. I discovered that by gripping the top of the cage and moving it up and down, I can still reach release. But how do I stop this from occurring? Right now, I’m sporting an A269-1 model with a 45 mm ring size. Any advice would be appreciated; I desire to feel some frustration, but knowing I have that escape route is getting on my nerves.

Correct, if you go into this believing it’s impossible to get relief while wearing a cage, you’re in for a rough ride. Most cages act primarily as deterrents. To achieve something close to secure locking, you’ll likely need to invest heavily in a full belt system. Naturally, few people are willing to drop that kind of money on a fetish or lifestyle they aren't fully committed to yet. Another approach is purely mental conditioning. It’s not that I *cannot* release while locked; it’s that I’ve convinced myself I’m *not allowed to try.* If you can train your mind to accept this, I suspect your sessions will proceed more smoothly.