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I first got involved with fetish communities about three and a half years back, when I had no idea what chastity, footworship or any of those other things were.

My motivation was simple curiosity. I’ve always held power over men, but I never wielded it in a specific way; they naturally did as I wished without being compelled because they wanted to impress me. After uploading some pictures to Fetlife, submissive males became quite obsessed with my feet. They offered plenty of cash for the privilege of sitting at my feet for thirty minutes—a deal I accepted around twenty times. Often, I simply used their backs as a footrest and ignored them while watching TV or using my iPad. They didn’t care one bit that it wasn’t really my thing, provided they could sit there.

It didn’t do much for me personally, but it was useful to ME.

Also, many men asked me to lock them up in chastity. Their profile pictures usually showed clinical-looking chastity cage devices, reminding me of hospital equipment. I dislike anything related to hospitals, and the cages seemed very unhygienic—let’s be honest, they look like they smell!

I received daily messages from men pestering and begging me to lock them; it was rather pitiful. They did not give a FLYING FUCK whether I cared or not, as long as they got their fetish kicks being locked by a “hot girl”.

Some offered money for in-person locks. There was no way I would touch their shrivelled penises, but I agreed to meet them so they could put the device on themselves while watching me click it shut and keep the keys. Many seemed very interested, and I arranged several meetings. Guess what… none of them showed up!

So that idea is done with. Nothing annoys me more than getting ready for a meeting only to have my evening ruined, especially when a potential stalker gets my address out of it.

However, most messages were still about chastity, so I started reading about online keyholding. I read about women holding five keys! Being a perfectionist, everything I do must be bigger and better than others’, so I wondered if I could get the highest number of keys at once. I told subs who messaged me that I would lock them in exchange for paying for the device and postage: £20 in the UK and £30 overseas. Their keys always went into a shiny metallic pink envelope with a nice puff of my perfume. Yes, I likely made a pitiful profit from it, but I have a good career and am not poor; such small amounts mean nothing to me. It ended up requiring quite a lot of time and effort on my part for something that wasn’t really an interest of mine.

I did this because holding many keys amused ME, and I like beating everyone else.

These two fetishes were pushed onto me by selfish males who didn’t care what I wanted, but I turned them to my advantage.

The highest number I had locked simultaneously was 39 boys. To be continued… [Image: vlcsnap-2015-02-16.jpg]

I've never understood why the forum doesn't honour Mistress Lucy (and empowered women like her) completely. She has accomplished so much for a young woman and continues to grow. Were none of us ever 23 years old? What was everybody else achieving at that age that was so great? I think Mistress Lucy shows wisdom beyond her years. She seems to give so much of herself to this site, yet I continually see her being criticised and told to 'grow up'. I believe she probably grew up a lot earlier than most of us actually did. She also adds style to the forum... that's a word which used to count for something. Anyway, I don't understand the negativity or the name-calling. If anyone has evidence that she is findomming then put it forward or shut up. I'd love to send her a gift but she won't accept one from me. That doesn't sound like greed to me. Try being respectful towards her; it often works wonders.

"Little girl" is a term males have used for thousands of years to put down women. It remains popular with the so called submissive members on this site when they don't get their own way (no names mentioned).

> frankie teardrop said: > I've never understood why the forum doesn't honour Mistress Lucy (and empowered women like her) completely. She has accomplished so much for a young woman and continues to grow. Were none of us ever 23 years old? What was everybody else achieving at that age that was so great? I think Mistress Lucy shows wisdom beyond her years. She seems to give so much of herself to this site, yet I continually see her being criticised and told to 'grow up'. I believe she probably grew up a lot earlier than most of us actually did. She also adds style to the forum... that's a word which used to count for something. > Anyway, I don't understand the negativity or the name-calling. If anyone has evidence that she is findomming then put it forward or shut up. I'd love to send her a gift but she won't accept one from me. That doesn't sound like greed to me. > Try being respectful towards her; it often works wonders. > Click to expand... > Mistress Lucy said: > I first got involved with fetish communities about three and a half years back, when I had no idea what chastity, footworship or any of those other things were. > > My motivation was simple curiosity. I’ve always held power over men, but I never wielded it in a specific way; they naturally did as I wished without being compelled because they wanted to impress me. After uploading some pictures to Fetlife, submissive males became quite obsessed with my feet. They offered plenty of cash for the privilege of sitting at my feet for thirty minutes—a deal I accepted around twenty times. Often, I simply used their backs as a footrest and ignored them while watching TV or using my iPad. They didn't care one bit that it wasn't really my thing, provided they could sit there. > > It didn’t do much for me personally, but it was useful to ME. > > Also, many men asked me to lock them up in chastity. Their profile pictures usually showed clinical-looking chastity cage devices, reminding me of hospital equipment. I dislike anything related to hospitals, and the cages seemed very unhygienic—let’s be honest, they look like they smell! > > I received daily messages from men pestering and begging me to lock them; it was rather pitiful. They did not give a FLYING FUCK whether I cared or not, as long as they got their fetish kicks being locked by a “hot girl”. > > Some offered money for in-person locks. There was no way I would touch their shrivelled penises, but I agreed to meet them so they could put the device on themselves while watching me click it shut and keep the keys. Many seemed very interested, and I arranged several meetings. Guess what... none of them showed up! > > So that idea is done with. Nothing annoys me more than getting ready for a meeting only to have my evening ruined, especially when a potential stalker gets my address out of it. > > However, most messages were still about chastity, so I started reading about online keyholding. I read about women holding five keys! Being a perfectionist, everything I do must be bigger and better than others', so I wondered if I could get the highest number of keys at once. I told subs who messaged me that I would lock them in exchange for paying for the device and postage: £20 in the UK and £30 overseas. Their keys always went into a shiny metallic pink envelope with a nice puff of my perfume. Yes, I likely made a pitiful profit from it, but I have a good career and am not poor; such small amounts mean nothing to me. It ended up requiring quite a lot of time and effort on my part for something that wasn't really an interest of mine. > > I did this because holding many keys amused ME, and I like beating everyone else. > > These two fetishes were pushed onto me by selfish males who didn't care what I wanted, but I turned them to my advantage. > > The highest number I had locked simultaneously was 39 boys. > To be continued... > View attachment 13214 > Click to expand... It's a wonderful article Mistress. I am so sorry useless men have let you down. We really are hopeless. I am glad you locked lots of us up but understand totally why you don't want to touch us. They are tiny and ugly.

You sound very much like my Wife, Mistress Lucy. She does not like Her time to be wasted and does not suffer disobedience. She did not particularly care for any fetishes and i at first begged (selfishly) for Her to indulge in them with me. Now, She does what She likes and i follow. And honestly, i have never been more free than in my submissiveness to Her. i desperately try to be as useful as i can because it feels so good to make Her happy.

Mailed a pink lock today to France, the first one I have sent for about 3 months. His target is 91 days. [Image: IMG_1178aa.jpg]

i love it. i might beg my Wife to change locks to something similar!

Membership of this website is free, if you like it stay, and if you don't like it then please leave and stop grumbling.

> windrush said: > Membership of this website is free, if you like it stay, and if you don't like it then please leave and stop grumbling. > Click to expand... Another male telling me what to do. Stop grumbling boy!

I repeat, if you don't like it here please leave. If you do like it stay, and just to state the obvious your post was a very long grumble.

> windrush said: > I repeat, if you don't like it here please leave. If you do like it stay, and just to state the obvious your post was a very long grumble. > Click to expand... It was not a grumble, and this site was not mentioned. If you don't like the truth then stop reading.

Looks like a journal entry like any other to me, and it is indeed posted where journals ought to be posted. i think if males are allowed to voice their opinions about harsh punishment and how frustrated they are being denied, Females are allowed to voice theirs about lack of obedience and time wasting. Fair is fair?