Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve just placed an order for my first custom-fabricated steel chastity device. I’m eager to receive it and hope my measurements were spot on. Once the package arrives, I’ll be sure to update you all with how things go.

As someone new to this lifestyle, I find myself questioning why I chose here as my destination. The idea that my best friend and lover hold the power over when I get my orgasmic release really intrigues me. We’ve shared a home for more than three decades, but she just laughed it off when I first mentioned it. Let’s see who is laughing last once we have the new device in hand, with her helping to fasten the lock while I ask for her assistance. It could even be a special Valentine’s Day gift.

I manage teams and processes at work daily, so why do I crave being managed by someone else? Where does this journey take me next? Am I opening up Pandora’s box?

A Prince Albert piercing has always been on my wishlist, but fear of needles and pain have held me back. Would a doctor perform it under sedation? It seems like an unusual request… Speaking of medical professionals, my annual skin checkup is just 30 days away with my dermatologist. I really want to wear the device during that appointment. She’s a stunning blonde MD in her late thirties and always examines my testicles as part of the physical exam. She’s married to our local psychiatrist. My gut feeling is to do it for the surprise factor! It’s definitely unusual, but let you all cast your votes…:eek:

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