Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I enjoy the concept of others noticing me while locked up, but I want to handle this fantasy responsibly. Does anyone have some enjoyable and legally sound suggestions?

Set up a profile on Fetlife and check out meetings or gatherings near you. You'll typically find BDSM activities, bondage classes, and similar events there. There's probably an option that fits both your desires and what you're ready to try.