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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi everyone, first off I want to thank all of you who shared your advice—it was incredibly helpful. My wife and I discussed my wish for chastity locking and…

member_80a022235e 7 Sept 2026 #1

Hi everyone, first off I want to thank all of you who shared your advice—it was incredibly helpful. My wife and I discussed my wish for chastity locking and what she would gain from it, realizing that this practice isn’t as strange or unusual as she might have initially thought. I admitted that I had been secretly wearing a cage for some time now and wanted to make it more public so we could both enjoy the experience together. She read through a few brief articles about male chastity to get a better grasp on what is involved, then agreed to give it a try at a gradual pace. Currently, I’m one very happy guy who has been locked up for a week, with only minor interruptions: she took off my cage when she wanted me inside her after I pleased her, and again so we could play badminton without looking odd in the locker room showers. Even though I can’t touch it directly, I’ve never felt more sexually charged than right now; wearing the device constantly is quite an adjustment but a good one. Surprisingly, I even find myself enjoying the morning discomfort or pain, although at first I was dribbling almost all the time. My wife still has some slight concerns about what would happen if something goes wrong and we need to go to the hospital while my cage stays on—has anyone else dealt with this situation?