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I am here to find out the truth about male chastity. I want the real accounts of what it is like beyond the fantasizing. I have tried so many of the…
I am here to find out the truth about male chastity. I want the real accounts of what it is like beyond the fantasizing. I have tried so many of the production chastity devices with zero success. The only way for me to achieve it would be through a piercing and a custom device.
> Monte72 said: > I am here to find out the truth about male chastity. I want the real accounts of what it is like beyond the fantasizing. I have tried so many of the production chastity devices with zero success. The only way for me to achieve it would be through a piercing and a custom device. > Click to expand... What do you mean by zero success? Are you saying you can escape or is it too uncomfortable or what?
Too painful and I can escape
First a few questions: Do you have a KH? If so, what is your connection? Is your KH also in control of any other aspects of your life? What? What do hope to achieve through chastity? What other "kinks" do you participate in? What other "kinks" do you fantasize about?
More important than different devices, have you tried different sizes of a ring and cage? A short cage prevents some of the pressure that causes pain. When you're at your most flaccid there should still be no additional room at the end to grow. You can't get that right though until you first get a ring that best fits.
The reason I asked the questions is to find out where your head is at. Why? Well, you want the truth so here it is: Chastity devices are usually no more than fetish wear, mostly symbolic. Some can make having an orgasm difficult, none can absolutely prevent it. All sexual transactions take place in the brain. The genitals and erogenous zones etc are merely input devices. A cage or belt or even removing the penis will not prevent a man who has developed the control that allows him to orgasm without extetnal stimulation, from having one. Without the man's head being in the right place, even the most restrictive hardware is not going to be effective in enforcing chastity. It is not about hardware, it is all about head space.