Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’m wondering how many of us who are kept in chastity plan to keep fit, and what motivates you along with which device you’re using?

As for me, I alternate between a Lori #9 equipped with a PA lock and the Mature Metal Queens Keep. The Queens Keep can be fitted with either a U-Lock or a circular segment ring. I find the Lori more difficult to wear when it’s active because it is heavier and slightly tighter.

I cycle (both road and mountain biking) most days, covering 200-300 miles weekly and competing in my age group during racing season. Applying chamois cream helps prevent irritation while cycling. ASOS also produces a lovely but pricey pair of bib shorts with a pouch designed to hold the ‘jewels’. These are my top choice for riding!

My other main activity is lap swimming, which causes no issues; the pool water is usually cool and soothing on my groin while locked up. For these swims I typically wear jammers (longer swim trunks). Regarding intensity, I do 1-2 miles per day, 4-5 days a week during fall/winter when cycling decreases.

Why stay active? To remain in shape and appear more attractive to the one I love and cherish. It’s really that simple for me. There are social ties with my cycling group and teammates, but those are secondary.

I lift weights and have practiced CrossFit for years. For the past year or so, I’ve been locked around the clock. Sometimes it gets quite interesting....

I am locked about 90% of the time because I’m semi-retired and work from home. I only unlock when it’s impractical or unnecessary. There is absolutely no rule preventing me from riding a bike or playing softball while locked. Unlocking occasionally doesn’t incur any penalty, nor are there strict rules in the official handbook:). I remain chaste whether locked or not; I certainly won’t masturbate while sitting in the dugout or riding through traffic, so there’s no need to stay confined when it serves no purpose. Whether locked or free, my wife controls my orgasms. Chastity is a sexual fetish—a thing that should be enjoyable for everyone involved. I’ve been a fetishist for over 45 years and have learned not to let your fetish disrupt the non-sexual parts of life. That’s why I can maintain various fetishes for decades. Think about it, but do what works for you, because that is the correct way, regardless of others' standards. Have fun and don’t let a sexual game make exercising or playing sports difficult. When I tried wearing my cage no matter what, I stopped doing activities that caused pain or discomfort while locked. I practically became a hermit to avoid problems arising from being locked constantly. Since adopting a more practical approach, not only am I still in chastity most of the time (often all week), but I’ve also resumed activities that were previously uncomfortable or problematic when worn continuously. It’s hard to wear a cup if you’re permanently confined.