Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve spent a good amount of time looking around the chastity forums and sites, yet I still feel no closer to solving my problem. My girlfriend and I both think the concept of being in chastity is thrilling. But it feels hard to track down a truly suitable device. Here are the requirements I’ve listed for an ideal piece:

1. Can be worn around the clock
2. Stays on during physical activity (gym work, biking/running)
3. Stops me from having an orgasm
4. Invisible under jeans
5. Doesn’t need to stop withdrawal entirely, but if it comes off, there should be no way for me to put it back on without being noticed by the keyholder. (It’s fine if removal is possible; what matters is that I can’t hide its absence). Price isn’t a concern for me. I have a frenum piercing already, but if something like PA or another type of piercings works better, I’m open to getting one. Also worth noting: I am a grower. Is it even realistic to find gear that fits? CB2000 is out for sure, though I haven’t tested the 3k or 6k models yet. I appreciate Lori’s designs, but many of the reviews aren’t entirely glowing. Any help would be great:-) Best, NNC

Hello and welcome! I'm currently wearing a CB6000s continuously for almost nine months now. Initially I used the standard 6000, but I liked the fit of the 6Ks better, so I switched to those earlier this year. I also own the KSD G3. For me, it makes pulling out extremely difficult, though getting back into it becomes nearly impossible! I wouldn't dare let my Wife/Keyholder discover I'd slipped out. Even if I behaved and didn't masturbate or have an orgasm, she would be very angry that I even tried to escape. Depending on your size down there, I highly recommend either the 6K or the 6Ks; both seem to match your needs perfectly in my opinion. Just be careful what you wish for!

Alright, thanks for the details. The KSD isn't a huge priority for me - is there any method to adapt the CB6k so it works with my piercing? That might solve the pull-out issue:)

> nilnisicruce said: > Alright, thanks for the details. The KSD isn't a huge priority for me - is there any method to adapt the CB6k so it works with my piercing? That might solve the pull-out issue:) > Click to expand... Since I don't have a piercing, I can't speak from experience, but I believe I've seen photos of guys using a 6K with a thin cable extending out the end. It loops back and attaches to the main "A" Ring or the pins.

Here is one approach that works for piercings: I recently got a CB6Kshort, and it fits better than any other cage I've owned. Combined with the KSD G3, there's absolutely no way I can slip out without significant pulling or risking damage, which my Mistress would be very angry about!

As mentioned, the KSD isn't essential for me. However, I did notice a security cable on that same page as the KSD ( Perhaps it could be used to create a loop through my frenum? If not, I suppose I'll just get a PA piercing. Could BirdLocked devices work just as well as the CB6000?

Just search for posts about birdlock or birdlocked on the forum; there is plenty of info available. All you need to do is look it up. Just trying to be helpful. Rachel

Hi Randy. Thanks for the advice. I've already read those threads but didn't see specific info on combining them with a frenum or PA - that's why I asked:-)

Please visit my website by clicking the link in my signature. I'd be glad to assist you. Thank You!!

> maturemetal said: > Please visit my website by clicking the link in my signature. I'd be glad to assist you. Thank You!! > Click to expand... Thanks - I sent you an email via your site. But just out of curiosity: do your devices work with a PA or frenum piercing?:)

I replied. I don't have any models specifically built for PA or Frenum piercings (though some clients use a cable system). The main issue is that these additions increase weight and can make the device less comfortable. A good chastity piece should be discreet enough to forget it's there. My designs achieve this and more. Stainless steel offers ten times the comfort of plastic. They last forever, backed by my lifetime guarantee; if anything breaks, I repair them free of charge, including shipping. Free adjustments are also included. I only charge $10 for shipping costs. If anyone has questions, feel free to ask. I've been crafting chastity devices for several years, and these designs have proven themselves over time. Check my homepage on the community site for customer comments and reviews. Thanks!!!

I agree that it adds weight and can cause discomfort, but in my view, a non-piercing device is only 'almost' secure at best. If I can get out of it easily enough, there's little point wearing it unless re-entry is impossible (which would alert the KH). However, a small modification might fix this. For example, using a cable. But if the end of the device remains mostly open, one could just remove the piercing entirely. Are there any locking jewelry options for piercings? Maybe something like a padlock, but with a cable passing through the piercing rather than a bar? Or perhaps making the gauge large enough to fit a mini-padlock would work? It would need special surgical steel though. Hmm. Any thoughts? > maturemetal said: > I replied. I don't have any models specifically built for PA or Frenum piercings (though some clients use a cable system). The main issue is that these additions increase weight and can make the device less comfortable. A good chastity piece should be discreet enough to forget it's there. My designs achieve this and more. > Stainless steel offers ten times the comfort of plastic. They last forever, backed by my lifetime guarantee; if anything breaks, I repair them free of charge, including shipping. Free adjustments are also included. I only charge $10 for shipping costs. > > If anyone has questions, feel free to ask. I've been crafting chastity devices for several years, and these designs have proven themselves over time. Check my homepage on the community site for customer comments and reviews. Thanks!!! > Click to expand...

Do you prefer a cage-style device (like CB2/3/6K or birdlock) over a tube? We're experimenting with the latter and have found it prevents cheating better than cage-type devices. With standard cages, I could rub in a certain way for relief, which wasn't ideal for me.