Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I really enjoy it when Captain Picard says “Engage” at the end of most Star Trek: TNG episodes. That captures exactly what this chastity experience is all about – ENGAGE - there’s no real option but to keep the ‘device on’ UNLESS you find it uncomfortable. If that happens, it becomes too easy to talk yourself into removing it, which leads to a different result—such as edging.

Edging can be quite strange; for one thing, is your status considered ‘device on’ or ‘device off’ while you are edging? I’ve had both experiences and found myself needing to restrain the tiger within the cage several times even when the device was technically ‘off’. This conditions the brain to view the behavior as negative—pleasure followed by restriction—much like a rat trapped in a box. Alternatively, if you edge with the device still on, it can hurt because something measuring 6” or more (in my dream world) doesn’t fit into that 2-1/2” stainless steel tube. This messes with your libido and, as I mentioned earlier, creates quite a mental challenge.

My MCN Contender is comfortable about 98% of the time; the remaining discomfort comes only from my penis reacting to something—either shrinking or growing—which the cage effectively keeps in check. Sometimes it’s just sleeping at an odd angle. The gap between the base ring often gets overlooked, yet it prevents the occasional ‘balls through the ring’ issue; I reduced mine from 3/8” down to 1/4”, and they haven’t escaped since. There can be pain when the testicles try to contract or tighten without any lotion or gel—the stainless steel against the skin usually wins out given how small that gap is. Keep in mind, a smaller gap means you need to ensure the first cock ring on your cage fits right, especially if you are circumcised, because excess skin can bunch up at the initial ring if it’s too tight. I had to increase my cage diameter from 1-1/4” to 1-3/8” to stop that bunching issue. Also, I was torn between a 1-7/8” and 1-3/4” base ring; I could only tell the difference because my feet would tingle occasionally with the smaller one. It’s particularly noticeable when lying horizontally in bed for a while—walking around isn’t as bothersome.

Bottom Line, “Sizing mistakes are expensive but well worth it for the comfort. Dial it in. The skin check is coming up soon, and I have mixed feelings about staying caged during that time. If asked by the nurse whether to keep it on, my answer will be ; honestly, I’d rather just go all out and worry less about the consequences. Let’s see what the pretty doctor thinks—after all, that is her job…

** Engage!**