Introductions discussion

Hi all, We are a Dutch pair in our forties, married for more than two decades in a deeply affectionate partnership. However, our sex life started to strain the relationship because one of us was resistant to change while the other wanted to stop altogether due to this issue. This minor crisis actually revitalized our romantic connection and prompted us to start experimenting again. We felt quite at home in The Boudoir context, so we purchased a CB6000. As an uncircumcised man, I ran into trouble within hours of starting out. To get rid of the edema issues and demonstrate my commitment to fixing our problems, I had surgery to remove my foreskin. We experimented with various devices for roughly two years before discovering the Holytrainer, which proved to be an excellent match. What we hadn’t anticipated was that she needed to take a fairly strict approach for me to truly enjoy it. Previously, I would just take off whenever I grew tired of it and even sometimes cut through the lock when I couldn’t locate the key. Everything shifted on my birthday when I jokingly proposed wearing it for 15 days until her own birthday arrived. She gave me a small card in my BD with a note saying she had decided to extend the lock period to 30 days. The Holytrainer nearly burst from pressure at that moment, and we realized then how exciting this path could be. Because the Holytrainer fit so tightly, cleaning it was difficult, and after several days, the odor became quite bad. Yes, we ordered a jail bird yesterday to help with that issue. Bright times lie ahead:)