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I’m just wondering what your keyholders think of your piercing. I know some were done before they entered chastity, but for those who got pierced specifically because of it, how do they feel? Do they appreciate the appearance, the security, are they neutral, or is it love/hate?

For me, the piercing was strictly about chastity. She didn’t force it; I wanted to do it myself as proof that I meant business. Her opinion is that she enjoys our sex life while I’m wearing the ring because she can sense it there. We both think it looks good too. I haven’t asked her directly if she appreciates the extra security against pull-outs, but I suspect she does find it beneficial. She likely already knows I’m not prone to cheating anyway, yet that additional layer of protection is something she’d welcome.

I’m unsure whether this is because she’s found more confidence in herself and simply doesn’t feel like performing oral sex, or if the ring itself plays a role, but she rarely goes down on me now since the procedure.

Overall, I believe she’s happy with my decision.

I'm not entirely sure, but it feels like she might not be a huge fan. Although! She definitely likes it when the angle hits just right though! We'll see once I get gauged and stop hurting so much.