Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Since I came back to this place, I’ve stumbled upon some fascinating content. The talks about cock sucking especially caught my eye. While certain games seem intriguing, others feel a bit old-fashioned. Meanwhile, the inquiries from those eager to learn serve as a nice nod to my own path. This made me want to share an experience that might be seen as interesting, intimidating, arousing, or just plain ordinary.

For those familiar with me, you know I’m currently single. My breakup happened because of a significant problem we couldn’t resolve. It’s tough since I have deep feelings for her; she was an incredible Domme and partner. You also likely know that I am bisexual.

As I recover and move forward, I’ve been trying to get back into the swing of things. After grieving our split, I started dating again, engaging with friends and local kink groups. I even decided to experiment. One new experience was attending an all-male sex party.

It felt both thrilling and daunting.

Having never attended such an event before, I wasn’t sure what to expect. Living in a somewhat rural area with just a few towns and a small city makes meeting people challenging. Turnout at events isn’t massive, so you never quite know who will show up.

After exchanging some emails and getting the logistics sorted, I went along. The gathering took place in a hotel suite where we stripped upon arrival. After handing over the suggested donation to cover the room cost, I got undressed. Others arrived around the same time, resulting in a group of six—a small party, really. I was slightly disappointed but didn’t let it bother me too much. Once the first two guys paired up and started performing oral on each other, I joined one guy and followed their example. This continued for some time, with men taking breaks before finding new partners.

After asking several of them if they’d like to fuck me, I finally found someone willing. One chap couldn’t get it back up after finishing, while another had to leave early enough that he wouldn’t make the cut anyway. Saying I met a capable partner is an understatement; wow, it was intense. To add to the excitement—since splitting roasts has been on my bucket list—I signaled for one of the other guys to join us. I took him in while another guy pounded me from behind. The others lined up, and I had them ready in order. At one point, I even tried sucking two at once, which was really cool.

It was a great time. Once we finished, I thanked the host and asked about future gatherings as I dressed. He mentioned he wouldn’t be hosting more since attendance hadn’t been high enough. However, he pointed me toward another party located two hours south.

Feeling brave, I reached out to that host following his instructions and received directions. This was a massive event at a private house with around 50 or 60 men present. There was plenty of sucking again, but this time some fucking too. While lying on a bed performing oral, I noticed a man being led in on a leash. His master had him suck me, which struck me as very appealing.

Since then, the idea of walking around on a leash like that has appealed to me. But I also thought it would be fun to wear chastity during such an event. Being someone who likes to try new things, I mentioned this to a friend of mine who is a bisexual Domme. She said she hadn’t done much with men in this way and was up for the challenge. So I checked with the host to ensure it was acceptable. He explained the party rules and what activities were allowed.

It looks like at my next possible attendance (likely in August), I’ll go along with my friend, wearing a leash and showing off my Jailbird.

As expected, I feel both excited and nervous. So I will update everyone as things progress. But I wanted to share this story because it feels somewhat unique and different.