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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

That other evening, while I was enjoying some worship time with my Wife @n2toys, she casually mentioned the movie 9½ Weeks (I don't remember exactly why).…

member_1834e3cb7c 8 Sept 2026 #1

That other evening, while I was enjoying some worship time with my Wife @n2toys, she casually mentioned the movie 9½ Weeks (I don’t remember exactly why). She chuckled and said it would make a perfect denial goal!

Hearing her say that felt both thrilling and terrifying. I asked if she meant it seriously, but she replied she was just kidding. The next day, though, I received a text: ‘So, 9½ weeks?!’ I wondered if I had a choice in the matter — ‘Nope.’ Was this her final decision or still up for debate? ‘Just teasing. We’ll go with 6½ weeks and see how it goes.’

At that point, I gave full disclosure: her initial text about 9½ weeks triggered an immediate reaction from me, causing a sudden spurting of built-up cum (right there at work). Thank goodness I had put on my male depends liner to avoid any embarrassing leaks! My Wife was delighted to hear that her message caused such a response.

Later that night, I confessed that the prospect of being pushed so far away felt both very exciting and daunting… considering my longest previous period has been either 5½ or 6½ weeks. Then she let slip it might actually be 9½ weeks… It is amusing how the whole concept of chastity and denial has shifted our dynamic; for better, in both our views.

I started out as a lurker here, too shy to even bring myself into conversation. Once I began participating, I had my own idea of how things ‘should be’ — I wanted a known release date so I could anticipate it. My Wife preferred not telling me directly, keeping me constantly guessing — and soon I realized she was right!

Now I never quite know what lies ahead for me: unlocked but playing around or strictly locked down; edged & denied; edged & ruined; milked; or allowed a full orgasm. Like many of you here, I crave deeply worshiping my Wife. That desire grows stronger the longer I am kept in denial — just the other night she was laughing several times at how wild with lust I became while using my mouth and tongue to serve her; it turned her on hugely that she found amusement in seeing my frustration affect me so visibly.