Introductions discussion

Hi everyone. I’m just joining the group. For a few years now, I’ve been on the giving end of chastity, with one experience receiving it myself. What really draws me in is controlling others rather than keyholding or long-distance arrangements. I get thrilled by locking up men who might be surprised by it—or perhaps secretly welcome it. Before letting them out, I often set a game or challenge for them to complete. That said, I have a soft side; if the complaining gets too much, I’ll likely give in and let them go.

This is why Emlalock has become my go-to device for setting up sessions that another person can manage remotely. Having someone else take control during the session adds an extra layer of difficulty for the one locked up, which I find appealing. Recently, a wonderful partner stepped forward to help me with these games.

I’ve also experienced being in chastity myself, just once. It was my way of understanding what men go through when they can’t reach their release point. The week-long stint left me feeling incredibly frustrated! A lady on this site guided me through it.

That’s exactly why I joined up here. My friend and I have known each other for years despite living in countries far apart. She mentioned that the discussions are engaging and full of interesting ideas, so I trust her recommendation.

I look forward to learning from everyone, getting stimulated by what you share, and hopefully making more friends like her. Katy

Welcome! It's great having you here! :):):):):):) LOL! ;););)