Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Let me share a personal tale…

I initially entered the world of chastity to help manage my chronic masturbation habit. My wife was previously fine with it, but eventually realized I was essentially cheating on her mentally and physically. After an extended discussion, we decided that my solo releases had to end.

The problem was, it wasn’t straightforward. Relapses kept happening. She didn’t get angry, but the disappointment in her eyes was clear—and honestly, that hurt more than if she had been mad!

One afternoon, as we discussed my struggle with self-control, I mentioned wishing there were a chastity belt designed for men up until then, all I knew of them came from seeing them in the medieval section of our local museum. My wife is naturally curious, so she fired up her iPad. Within 30 seconds on Amazon, we both marveled at the range of devices available. I was eager to purchase one, but my wife wasn’t sold on the idea initially.

About a week later, following another failed attempt at self-control, I brought up the topic of a chastity cage again. This time she (very reluctantly) agreed that it might be worth trying. I immediately ordered a steel cage from China before she could change her mind.

The cage arrived, and I put it on. I suspect I made a beginner’s error by choosing the largest of the three included rings. It turned out to be quite uncomfortable. My original plan was to only wear it when I felt extremely aroused. I gave my wife one of the three keys that came with it, kept another in my car, and locked the third one away in my office. As you might guess, this setup didn’t work as planned. By the time I got sufficiently horny, it was often too late to act.

Because wearing it initially was uncomfortable, my wife suggested I wear it during the day but remove it at night. I would start donning it a few days after we had intercourse. The goal was to see how long I could “last” without needing release. However, I still masturbated at night. Consequently, she strongly recommended that I wear it continuously once my short post-sex grace period ended.

To cut a long story short, she now insists on 24/7 wear for me, only allowing removal during sex. She has also gathered all three keys. They used to be referred to as “my” keys; now they are undeniably hers. Fortunately, I switched to the medium-sized ring, which is much more comfortable.

Tonight she announced that from this point forward, she will be the sole person allowed to touch my penis. I am forbidden from doing so myself. Honestly, how quickly she has shifted from not wanting me to have a cage to fully controlling those rare moments of release is somewhat unsettling.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?