Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve been pondering this. In all my past relationships, I found it hard to gather the nerve to tell my partner about it. To be honest, when I finally did open up once, it went badly and she had a bit of an outburst.

It would be wonderful if there were a video online that gently described the allure and advantages from a woman’s point of view for someone who is vanilla. This feels like it could really help us submissives who find explaining it difficult. There are several books available for this. But having a (gentle, not intimidating) video to introduce these ideas through a female lens would be excellent. So I’m curious if anyone knows of such a video? If not, wouldn’t it be great if someone created one!