Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! I recently joined the site and am excited to become part of your group. I’d like to share a bit about myself and what brought me here. I’m a man in my late twenties, single right now, with an open mind and keen interest in various sexual lifestyles, kinks, and more. I’ve read many accounts from people who have experienced shifts in their mindset or personality—usually while under a keyholder—but I haven’t quite reached that stage yet! Even if the changes are subtle, I wanted to try them for myself, so I decided to take the plunge. Here are some reasons why I chose to lock up (listed without any specific order): I really enjoy being submissive. In past relationships, I tended to be more dominant. While I don’t mind taking charge sometimes, I’d much prefer someone else to lead. I was masturbating several times a day, which left me feeling lethargic and affecting both my personality and daily routine. My sex drive seemed to wane as I realized I was doing it just out of habit for quick pleasure, only to feel increasing regret afterward. I think locked-up penises are incredibly cute. Additionally, I’ve become increasingly interested in exploring anal pleasure. I’ve owned a couple plugs for several months and played with them occasionally, but because I was masturbating so frequently, I didn’t always have the sexual drive to do more. One day, I’d love to achieve an orgasm using only my anus, which is something I’ll patiently work toward. Interestingly enough, I want to channel some of this pent-up energy into healthy eating and exercise. Standing about 5’9” and weighing around 180 lbs, I’d like to drop a little weight. Since locking up recently, I’ve already felt motivated to eat better. Perhaps the built-up sexual energy is making me feel sexier overall. It works for me. Essentially, I believe chastity will be a helpful tool in exploring and experiencing these things. I know much of it depends on willpower and self-control. A cage can only do so much, and I’ll keep that limitation in mind. Apologies if this post is lengthy! I’m currently in my first extended period of being locked up. It took me a few days of trial and error to get the fit right, but I finally put the cage on earlier this week. Now it’s day 4 with zero erections. I can’t recall when I last felt such strong arousal. Even typing this message has made me feel lightheaded at times! It might still be the honeymoon phase, but I’m enjoying the experience so far and will definitely share more updates soon. Looking forward to learning from you all, sharing my journey, and discussing things together! P.S. - I’m always open to constructive criticism, suggestions, and new ideas, so please feel free to share your thoughts.