Introductions discussion

Hi all. I’m a submissive cross-dressing bondage bunny with a strong interest in chastity, though my knowledge is still growing because the topic really captivates me. I purchased some affordable options from Wish and eBay: one is a hard plastic model featuring an integrated lock, while the other is made of silicone. However, fitting them has been tricky; the first was too large for me, and although I bought a smaller version secondarily, it still feels loose enough that I could slip out. I’ve connected with a lovely new woman who might become my key holder, but I need to locate a device that is both reasonably priced and fits correctly. I stumbled upon your site while researching and am eager to meet and chat with the community here. Thanks!